My bridesmaids aren’t pulling their weight!

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’ My bridesmaid’s aren’t pulling their weight,’ Working in the wedding industry I often hear this from disgruntled brides. It’s a common issue that comes up in wedding planning, one that can be easily avoided with some open communication early on. The truth is, every bride has different perceptions of how involved they want their bridesmaid to be.
The level of bridesmaid participation basically falls into three categories

The Active Bridesmaid : A bridesmaid that is with the bride for most planning stages.
The Semi-Active Bridesmaid A bridesmaid that may only help out with certain aspects of the wedding such as decorations or invitations.
Relaxed Bridesmaid: A bridesmaid that only attends things that involve her, such as bridesmaid gown fittings.
It’s up to the bride to determine what level of bridesmaid participation she wants. How are bridesmaids expected to pull their weight if they do not know what is expected on them. Early on in the wedding planning hold a ‘bridesmaid meeting’ to have an open discussion of what needs to be done. Prepare for the meeting before the day; determine on your own (or with the help of your maid of honour) what you would like help with.
Holding regular bridesmaid meetings are ideal. It could be at a local coffee shop or at your own home for lunch. Have meeting agendas, for example, one meeting could have the agenda of finalising the decorations.
Planning your wedding is made extra special when you are sharing the special moments with your bridesmaid. Keep the lines of communication open and it sure to be happy memories long after you are married.

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